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Cheeky

Whenever we are apart, it doesn’t take long until I start thinking about the “cheeky” that will happen when we are next together. However, this time when searching online for a little surprise, I got to thinking about your (unnecessary) insecurities around aging and I began to have doubts of whether it would make you horny or horrified!  I want to make you comfortable again but need to check in on your views on things.

So I created this survey to check in on our thoughts, feelings, turn-ons and turn-offs around our sex life. I think we both still enjoy it, we both want to do it more but sometimes we create stress that needn’t be there just because we don’t talk about it.

Our busy and stressful lives, finding uninterrupted time when we can really enjoy the moment and age taking its toll on our bodies (or more correctly our own perception of our bodies) all get in the way of enjoying sex as much as we could. We need to fix that.


So please answer as fully and honestly as you can - I hope you enjoy the survey; I got horny as hell writing it!

Rules:

1. Do not complete the survey in the middle of the day. You need to be alone, at night, preferably after a drink!

2. Be honest - we should promise not to take offence or be shocked. 




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Our sex

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We struggle to find time for sex and sometimes need to force ourselves to commit to a date in order to make sure that we don’t go too long. No matter how tired we feel, what we are watching on TV or any other reason we should stick to our date. How do you feel about that?

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If "other (please specify)" didn't work in the last question, answer here.

3

My little blue pill has made a big difference, but I know it takes a bit of the spontaneity. There is an option for a pill that last 3 days that gives some flexibility.

Select one answer
4

If "other (please specify)" didn't work in the last question, answer here.

5

I know you hate applying your gel and connect it with getting old; but as I said before, if you think of it as sex lube from Ann Summers that we bought because we or such a sex loving couple then its a really sexy thing that can form part of our foreplay. Which best describes the way you will think about it going forward? ANSWER TRUTHFULLY

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If "other (please specify)" didn't work in the last question, answer here.

7

Sometimes we get our horny clock out of sync and one is ready but the other isn't. If, in our new hedonistic lifestyle you found that were horny and I wasn't, which of the following would you be comfortable doing? Remember, don't think about what we HAVE been doing, think about what we COULD be doing? Be as selfish as you want. All of the below response are fine by me.

Some of these answers might lead to sex, but assume they might not.
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If "other (please specify)" didn't work in the last question, answer here.

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If the roles were reversed and I was the horny one and you wouldn't or didn't want to have sex, how comfortable would you be with the following

Giving me a handjob on request
10

If the roles were reversed and I was the horny one and you wouldn't or didn't want to have sex, how comfortable would you be with the following

Give me a blow job on request
11

If the roles were reversed and I was the horny one and you wouldn't or didn't want to have sex, how comfortable would you be with the following

Leave the room so I can masturbate
12

If the roles were reversed and I was the horny one and you wouldn't or didn't want to have sex, how comfortable would you be with the following

Watch me masturbate until climax
13

I think its pretty common for men to get turned on watching women masturbate but I have no idea about how you find the image of men, or more specifically me wanking.

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14

If "other (please specify)" didn't work in the last question, answer here.

15

When I'm travelling, we sometimes find out that we've both had a "solo cheeky" while we are apart. What do you think of doing this on Facetime together?

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16

If "other (please specify)" didn't work in the last question, answer here. (Facetime question)

17

You get (unnecessarily) concerned about your body with cellulite and firmness your biggest concern. Lucky for you you’ve got a husband who loves to have sex with you partially clothed. What makes you most relaxed?

Select one answer which best fits
18

If "other (please specify)" didn't work in the last question, answer here.

19

There isn’t much I can wear for you to hide my body but I do try to keep in a decent shape. I can keep trimmed for you though. What is your preference for my pubic hair

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20

If "other (please specify)" didn't work in the last question, answer here.

21

Rate these types of underwear out of 10 that you would like to see me wearing for sex.

Briefs
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Rate these types of underwear out of 10 that you would like to see me wearing for sex.

Hip Briefs
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Rate these types of underwear out of 10 that you would like to see me wearing for sex.

Trunks
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Rate these types of underwear out of 10 that you would like to see me wearing for sex.

Boxer Briefs
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Rate these types of underwear out of 10 that you would like to see me wearing for sex.

Boxers
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Rate these types of underwear out of 10 that you would like to see me wearing for sex.

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Rate these types of underwear out of 10 that you would like to see me wearing for sex.

Jockstrap
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What are your favourite colour or colours for male underwear?

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Is there any kind of underwear not mentioned yet that you would like me to wear?

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Getting Dirty

30

I know you didn’t understand my high heel fetish at first, but it almost feels like you have your own now. You are more likely to insist on heels than I am, I’ll never forget from nowhere you taking off a shoe and putting it in my mouth and it was an amazing turn on for me that you shared that you wore heels to masturbate in. Where are we with that?

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If "other (please specify)" didn't work in the last question, answer here.

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I know you like me to talk to you when we fuck and I know I’m not great at that. Can you put in order the style of talk you want to hear?

Drag and drop to change the order
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Is there anything related to the last question that you want to comment on?

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It’s important I use the right words to get the tone right. What word(s) should I use for sex

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What word or words for penis?

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What word or words for vagina

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What word or words for breasts

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What word or words for bottom?

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If we have the house to ourselves for the night, I want to take full advantage. I want to be in the kitchen mixing cocktails while you are upstairs getting ready. I want that heart flutter when I see your legs coming down the stairs, when I hear you heels on the marble in the hallway and then see you with your sexy walk towards your stool while I get your drink. I want at an hour of flirting, teasing, touching, and stroking before we get near sex. Rate these outfits out of 10 which you would want to wear. Think about what you'd be comfortable in and what you think you could make work for that hour.

Evening dress
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Looking at the image, adjust the slides to reflect your thoughts about the outfit. Remember, You're not going out to an event with friends, its for just for us to enjoy before we move upstairs...

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I wouldn't feel sexy
I'd feel so horny
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This wouldn't suit me
I would look great
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If we have the house to ourselves for the night, I want to take full advantage. I want to be in the kitchen mixing cocktails while you are upstairs getting ready. I want that heart flutter when I see your legs coming down the stairs, when I hear you heels on the marble in the hallway and then when I see you with your sexy walk towards your stool while I get your drink. I want at least an hour of flirting, teasing, touching, stroking and generally winding up before we get near sex. Rate these outfits out of 10 which you would want to wear for that downstairs period. Think about what you'd be comfortable in and what you think you could make work for you for that hour.

Sexy business look
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Rate the sexy business suit idea

Indicate which value you incline to
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I wouldn't feel sexy
I would feel horny in this
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This wouldn't suit me
My body would look great
43

If we have the house to ourselves for the night, I want to take full advantage. I want to be in the kitchen mixing cocktails while you are upstairs getting ready. I want that heart flutter when I see your legs coming down the stairs, when I hear you heels on the marble in the hallway and then when I see you with your sexy walk towards your stool while I get your drink. I want at least an hour of flirting, teasing, touching, stroking and generally winding up before we get near sex. Rate these outfits out of 10 which you would want to wear for that downstairs period. Think about what you'd be comfortable in and what you think you could make work for you for that hour.

Chic boots and skirt
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Rate the hot boots and skirt look

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I wouldn't feel sexy
I would feel sexy in this
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This wouldn't suit me
My body would look great
45

If we have the house to ourselves for the night, I want to take full advantage. I want to be in the kitchen mixing cocktails while you are upstairs getting ready. I want that heart flutter when I see your legs coming down the stairs, when I hear you heels on the marble in the hallway and then when I see you with your sexy walk towards your stool while I get your drink. I want at least an hour of flirting, teasing, touching, stroking and generally winding up before we get near sex. Rate these outfits out of 10 which you would want to wear for that downstairs period. Think about what you'd be comfortable in and what you think you could make work for you for that hour.

Leather leggings
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Rate the leather leggings idea

Indicate which value you incline to
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I wouldn't feel sexy
I would feel horny in this
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This wouldn't suit me
My body would look great
47

If we have the house to ourselves for the night, I want to take full advantage. I want to be in the kitchen mixing cocktails while you are upstairs getting ready. I want that heart flutter when I see your legs coming down the stairs, when I hear you heels on the marble in the hallway and then when I see you with your sexy walk towards your stool while I get your drink. I want at least an hour of flirting, teasing, touching, stroking and generally winding up before we get near sex. Rate these outfits out of 10 which you would want to wear for that downstairs period. Think about what you'd be comfortable in and what you think you could make work for you for that hour.

Slutty dress
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Rate the slutty dress idea

Indicate which value you incline to
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I wouldn't feel sexy
I'd feel so horny
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This wouldn't suit me
My body would look great
49

Do you have any further comments related to to our “pre-sex” downstairs drinks?

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So while I wait downstairs mixing cocktails, what should I be wearing.

Choose any that you like or write a note on something else
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You were mad for 50 shades of Grey for a while; given that its not a literary classic we never really explored why you liked it. Let's see what appeals.

Indicate which value you incline to
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I like to be in control
I want to be dominated
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Never tie me up
I want to be tied up
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Never spank me
Spank me like I'm a bad girl
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Keep it clean
Talk Dirty
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Feel free to add your own comments on the 50 shades questions

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I'd like to be tied to the bed and be gently dominated. I'd have you tease and stimulate me in all sorts of ways that would get me to the edge of climax but never actually let me cum until you were ready to allow it. Ways to tease might include describing what you're wearing and catwalking around the bed; running objects on my body - high heels, soft gloved hands, leather boots; playing with your pussy or your breasts inches from my face; sitting on my face; playing with my cock with different gloves or lubes. When its time for me to cum you can either ride me or wank me but all the way through I'd tied helpless.

We'll get to the details later, but for now.....
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I hate the idea
I love it - get my boots
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I find it perverted
I love to explore new stuff like this
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I wouldn't know what to do
I'm already thinking of stuff you haven't
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How do you feel about modelling your sexy outfit and striking a few provocative poses while I'm helpless?

Indicate which value you incline to
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Turn off
Turn on
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I wouldn't do it
I'd love to
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Teasing me with your tits or your pussy close to my face - sometimes playing with them just a few inches away and sometimes pushing towards me and ordering me to lick or suck as you wished.

Indicate which value you incline to
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Turn off
Turn on
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I would be very uncomfortable
I could get really into that
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Running gloved hands from my head to my toes - maybe switching from satin to velvet to leather to rubber to see what gets the biggest reaction

Indicate which value you incline to
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Turn off for me
Turn on for me
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I think you are wierd
I think you are erotic
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Rubbing my cock with different gloves or lubes

Indicate which value you incline to
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Turn off
Turn on
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I could do it but would feel awkward
I'd be turning you on so much
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Sitting on my face and grinding

Indicate which value you incline to
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Turn off
Turn on
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I can't believe it turns you
I know this is right up your street
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There's quite a lot in the previous questions. Here's a chance for any for free text comments you might have.

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So, last question. I've shared quite a lot there. You can go into as much or as little detail as you like - we can talk when you get home, but is there anything you would like us to try?

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